I need help!

I'm having the hardest time trying to decide if going back to work after having our second child is worth it. As of right now we live with our in-laws saving money to buy a house. I'm thinking that if I go back to work I will be just working to pay childcare.

If I don't go back then I won't have an income for a home loan and it will slowly be on my husband.

I always thought to be a stay-at-home mom the husband should be making well over enough. My husband definitely does not make enough to support a household but since we're living with our in-laws right now we could definitely afford for me to stay home and keep saving his paychecks.

Ugh idk! He's okay with me staying home I just don't know if that's the right decision.