Is this normal??

Question

I have had sex with 3 people and every time I don't feel pleasure. I fake it so no one would know. I've tried quite a few things toys don't work either. The only thing I feel pleasure to is the outside of the vagina. When I try and have sex (penitration) nothing. Someone help me. I'm so scared to talk to anyone this is the first time and this has been going on for 2 1/2 years.

Answer

First of all: Don't be scared! You're absolutely normal, this is not weird at all! I don't think I've ever come just from penetration alone - and women that can do that, are very lucky! 
I recently watched a program about sex and women's pleasure and there was a female scientist talking about how similar the clitoris and the penis are, so for a woman to have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation is as rare as a man having one without having his penis stimulated. 
The problem isn't YOU, the problem is that most (not all) men don't realise how important clitoral stimulation is in order to make their partner come. 
Secondly, you want to have a partner who is interested in making you come - that will help too. 
My advice would be to explore the things that do give you pleasure- whether it's on your own or with a partner you feel comfortable with and go from there. If penetration isn't doing it for you at all, that doesn't mean you have to stop doing that, it just means there are other sexual acts involved in getting you there- which makes it more fun. I'd suggest a "bullet" type toy that is small and vibrates, you can figure out exactly what you like and where. 
Everyone is different but deserves to feel good and to enjoy sex.

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75% of women cannot experience vaginal orgasm. I can't either. Relaxing your mind helps but you have to be super comfortable and not think; Only focus on the feeling. Stimulate your clit during sex and this will lead to an external orgasm that's a bit more powerful than during masturbation as your vaginal releases fluid and the inner clitoris is stimulated while being brushed by the penis. So even though you're not experiencing a vaginal orgasm from your G Spot, you're still getting something

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Totally normal! Most women don't feel pleasure from penetration and need clitoris stimulation to get off.

Is this normal??

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