Would you be mad?

I feel kind of disrespected and angry, but I’m sure it’s partly hormones.. My husband and I were about to drive 40 mins away or so to run an errand he’d been reminding me about all day. He then said it was about dinner time and asked if I wanted to just go out with some of his friends instead of running the errand. I said we can join them afterward because I’d rather get the errand done before they close.

He said okay, and then he stalled played on his phone for like 45 minutes. So I asked twice if his game was almost done because the place was gonna close soon. I’m here trying to entertain my toddler while he stalls. Then we get in the car on our way to dinner since the errand place was closed by this time. Ugh

While the car was cooling off he was texting his best friend and I glanced over and saw “yeah my wife wouldn’t stfu about going out somewhere else but we’re on our way there now”

I said “Really? That’s how you’re gonna talk about me while I’m sitting right next to you?” And he got red then said it was my fault for looking at his phone. But it’s not like he was trying to hide it. I’ve never snooped in 5 years of being together so it’s not like that. I just feel like the “nagging wife” to all his friends now and I’m sitting in the car while he’s getting us all a table because I’m fuming. And I don’t want everyone else to see my puffy eyes from the 5 min drive here. Rant over.