Do they come back? Why do i wamt him back? 😔

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My ex of 4 years dumped me 4 days ago.. he said i loved him too much and he couldn’t reciprocate the love i gave him.. it hurts. I felt like that explanation wasn’t good enough. I have no closure. I want to text him, i want him back.. i still have hope of getting back with him and i know all of this is wrong 😔😔😔😔😢

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Never ever chase someone who just let you go so easily. They are never worth it.

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It doesn’t matter if there’s another explanation. He said it plain and simple, he doesn’t love you as much as you love him. Maybe he feels u deserve better, or he lost his love for you- that may sound harsh. Point is u deserve someone who appreciates all the love you give and reciprocates it back to you. U don’t need someone who leaves u because u “love too much.” Go find someone who appreciates you and don’t contact him. Ik it’s easier said then done but u need to focus on you. Take all the love u had for him and give it to yourself. DO NOT CONTACT HIM. U don’t want him to feel like he has u wrapped around his finger. Pretend he doesn’t exist and live your life! Trust me he’ll regret what he did if he sees u happy without him. ❤️

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He did give you closure when he broke up with you. He gave you a clear reason that you can articulate to others; the only problem is that you’re not accepting it. I have a feeling no matter what he says, you won’t accept it because you don’t want to. Closure isn’t the issue, his reason isn’t the issue;  acceptance is the issue.

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Wow I’m sorry but honestly he doesn’t have to give you more of an explanation or any closure. I know how badly you want to hear from him and see why he ended it after being together for 4 years but he’s probably going to give you the same answer. It’s best to just cut all ties form him and don’t wait on someone who like he said can’t give you that same love back. I know you think it doesn’t matter if he can’t love you the same because all you want is him in your life but girl you deserve better and soon you will realize it. Focus on yourself and don’t hold onto your past or him because it’s only going to make it harder on yourself. Seems like he as moved on so you need to do the same. Don’t call or text him that will just drive him more away from you and you will look like that stocker ex. Give him his space and if he does decide to text you or want to talk then that’s when you should ask him for closure. But focus on healing yourself.

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I used to wish daily that my ex would come back. He kinda left me the same way yours did. We dated for 3 years and everything was fine until he broke up with me over text one morning and ended up having another girlfriend I wasn’t aware of. Right now you’re going to wish that they’ll come back and everything will go back to normal but I promise as time goes by you’re not going to want it anymore and you’ll realize you’re worth more than what he could provide you with. Chin up, you got this <3

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That explanation is absolutely good enough. He is literally doing you a favor. It hurts right now and it probably feels like you can't get over it, but you can. You deserve better.

Do they come back? Why do i wamt him back? 😔

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