I don’t want to be maid of honor

Okay I feel so honored but I’m having major anxiety the closer it gets to my friends wedding! Her wedding is coming up here the end of October. She asked to be her MOH months ago! Well I’m pregnant due in November (she knows) and I didn’t know of course I’d get pregnant months after she asked me. Like what if I give birth around that time? Also I have major social anxiety and get dizzy and nervous being even just around a couple people. I can’t imagine her wedding, also giving a speech?! It’s freaking me so much as it gets closer. And I got to plan her bachelorette party and she wants a hotel with a pool. I don’t even have a job right now my SO is supporting us (lost previous job due to pregnancy issues in first trimester, SO got a better job makes more than what we both previously was together but still have major things coming up/needed and the wedding is back tracking us a lot and we have a 2 year old right now too). Her birthday is in November as well as my due date. The money I have to save up for everything takes from our saving for the new baby and my current two year old and we been trying to save for a new family vehicle as well that we need because our current isn’t going to last past summer. My bridesmaid dress too plus shoes will be around 300+. Also we just moved two months ago and put a lot into our new home /still are and moving period is stressful. Everything is honestly stressing me out. I love my friend and she deserves the best day. I’m so nervous I can’t do everything good or the way she wants. Any suggestions on how I can make the situation better/easier?

Please no negative comments I know some of you females can be just mean on here🙄