Its one of those days where I really question my marriage.

A little back story: my husbands mom is doing a BBQ for the 4th. That's fine, it was just supposed to be family members who we have already seen and we were planning on going. 2 days ago we find out there are 5 more people coming from. Out of town (California) and neighbors are coming as well. I told my hisband last night I'm not comfortable bringing our 5 month old around that many people in a pandemic. He LOST HIS SHIT! He's been calling me names all morning (c*unt , wh*re, b*tech, etc) and left for work 30 minutes early because he was so mad at me for having a concern about my babys health. Hes telling me I'm being selfish, trying to play keep away games with my baby and his mom (I have NEVER not let her see him) saying my mom and dad aren't allowed to see him any more etc. This is after I told him I'm fine with his mom coming over tomorrow morning to visit but I'm not bringing my baby there. I told him if he really wants to be like that we can take it to court (I know I shouldn't gave but I did). I ran out to his car before he left and told him if he's going to keep treating me this way he needs to pack a bag for the weekend. He slammed the door on me and yelled "you did this you wh*re". I called his mom , she totally understands my concerns and is going to talk to him but what the hell do i do?! My husband has never been one to sit and have a calm conversation.