I was hoping to get a little advice and I don’t really have anyone else to talk. I love my friends but they are all super natural and even though they mean well they can be a little judgy. I am pregnant with my second child and this morning we met with our OB and I didn’t realize but there office doesn’t do VBACs. And I didn’t have my heart set on it but I figured it would be something we talked about. After my first c-section I never felt bad or had any trauma about having it but for some reason having a planned one is making me feel weird. I don’t know if it’s because I do want to try or I am afraid of the mom judgment of having a planned c-section. If this is something we want then we have to change providers which I would rather do now than later. Does anyone have any advice?