So the VA has made me wait for 6 years to get a referral out into the community. I’m trying to get pregnant and STAY PREGNANT. But the VA can’t figure out what is happening. So now after 6 years and being directed to the head of the OBGYN to be seen only by her, not only did they misdiagnose me and say I have cervical cancer but called me a wh*re. I reported it to Washington accordingly. Hence why I’m being seen by the head of the department. Well now because of COVID I have to wait. Well I took things into my own hands and I called my preferred care provider. They need proof that it’s going through triwest. I called triwest and they said that they should have received the referral by now and are contacting community care for me. I’ve had it. I’m so emotional about everything that is happening. My heart hurts. I’ve already lost 17/19 pregnancies. Had to go to a specialist every two weeks when I was last pregnant. Almost lost that pregnancy because my appendix almost burst. My heart hurts immensely.

It should have taken 6 years. I shouldn’t had gone through the disrespect for wanting another child. Just because I’m a female doesn’t mean I’m a bad person. I just want to be happy. And not treated like trash.

Is there anything else that I can do?

I don’t know how I’m still holding on with all the heart ache.