A fool for too long

In a argument once, I was screaming and crying and begging him not to leave me. Desperately I told him HE WAS ALL I HAVE . After than we calmed down and later on that night he told me he loved the fact that I told him he was all I had. Like he didn’t want me to have anyone else. He loved that I depended on him for my happiness. This man pretty much had a lot of control over me and I took this as a red flag. Ladies agree ??