Is anyone else not having direct contact with family due to COVID?

Prior to my daughters birth, I explained to my mother that she would need to quarantine for 2 weeks if she wanted to be at our home birth, or to see the baby right after birth. She said she couldn’t do that and I said ok. I was a little hurt, but understood she has her own life and it’s not personal.

Fast forward to now- I am almost 2 weeks postpartum. When my daughter was 3 days old I told her well maybe we can do a social distance visit if you shower, put on clean clothes, a clean mask and keep a six foot distance. She said ok! Later I text her again saying oh I forgot to ask, have you,’or my step dad or siblings been around anyone who has had any symptoms of being sick? She said “no, but I want you to feel comfortable so if we need to wait we can”. I thought about it and told her yeah you know, let me talk to the midwives tomorrow at our spot and maybe later this week would be better, but lets FaceTime today! An hour later I get a lengthy text saying how she cannot FaceTime because she is too upset and so sorry how she hurt me as a child and a bunch of other random things that were completely irrelevant...

It was really bizarre, but she made this into about how she isn’t a grandmother and it’s hard letting go of her child... as if she’s never going to see us again!? It was super dramatic and I was really upset because I’m the one in postpartum! I’m missing my family too, hello! This is difficult for me, but it feels like my family is more obsessed with how it is affecting them. Anyone else going through something like this with family!? I just wish they could understand I didn’t ask for a pandemic. I am just trying to do what is safe for me and my family.