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So me and my boyfriend are TTC for the first time and we have had sex these past 3 weeks and everytime we've done it he has put his semen inside me. I also have been having lots of back pain recently. My period was late 2 days and it arrived today and I have really bad back pain and lower belly pain at the moment. At first I thought maybe its implantation bleeding but I'm not sure when I wipe myself I feel like its alot but it doesnt fill my pad up at all just a little bit of drips. I'm honestly sad about this and confused how is it possible that I am not pregnant?? Is it implantation bleeding?? How does implantation bleeding look or feel like?? Could I have problems or did we do something wrong? I need lots of advise and opinions ladies ❤

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Honestly, som many things have to be just right.  Even if you do everything right it’s not a guarantee...not by a long shot.  So, if you can, try and just enjoy the process.

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The average time for couples TTC to get pregnant is a year so don’t beat yourself up! You can track ovulation to help increase your chances but even on the day of ovulation if he finishes inside of you theres only like a 30 something % chance of getting pregnant!

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Getting pregnant just takes a little time. Everything has to be exactly right. Ovulation tests help you determine when you’re ovulating. Do some research on ovulation and how timing can effect your chances of getting pregnant. Some women it takes one time, others it can take years. Both times that I tried to get pregnant, I carefully tracked everything and timed it all out. It took three months each time.

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You just started ttc. It can take up to a year for a healthy couple to conceive. You can fine it perfectly and have sex the exact days you need to and not end up pregnant. Its your period.

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When i had implantation bleeding it was only a few drops in the toliet and I tested positive a few days before the bleeding. This pregnancy i didn't have any implantation bleeding. 
But you didn't do anything wrong. Its normal to take a while to get pregnant. There have been tons of couples that are ttc for a year or more and some get pregnant right away. Just keep trying :)

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First, take this to the TTC board and you’ll see other people dealing with the same thing. I tried to TTC this time for 20 months before it ‘took’. Each cycle you have like 30% chance if getting pregnant if you’re doing it right. Do some research and don’t get discouraged.

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I got pregnant with my first unknowingly my second i had no idea until I felt off took a test qnd postive it took me and my husband almost 3 years to get pregnant! We tracked when I ovulated and finnaly I said i was going to take a break and I got pregnant during quarantine

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