Help....

So I have a two year old child, and I’m married...

I don’t know how to talk about this without making this post extremely long, but I just need help with it all..

My husband constantly accuses me of things, when I haven’t done anything, doesn’t even like me working out at a specific gym, cause there’s “buff guys there” and that I’ll “cultivate a relationship” and doesn’t even like me wearing sexy shorts AROUND him.... I’ll not wear them when I am not with him, but when I was ONE time, he flipped....

He doesn’t like my sister cause she wants to start an only fans, and he thinks that if I hang around her, that I’ll want to start doing that...

And my brother in law he doesn’t like, because he USED to be a stripper...

And two weeks ago he blew up on me after I said I was having a miscarriage and when he turned away in the bed facing away from me, I sat up and said he wasn’t being supportive in that moment, and after that he lost it... still haven’t gotten any sympathy...

Also when we go out he just looks miserable and is so not fun to be around, and I think it’s because he’s wanting to smoke pot so bad and can’t cause we’re out...

Before I met him, he used to dress so nice and make himself look good, now he does nothing... I’ll make myself up so nice and he looks so bad... now please don’t get me wrong, I’m not all about appearances... but do yourself up nice for your wife sometimes...

There’s allot more, but that’s what’s been recent