Is the dick too big?

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When my boyfriend and I are having sex sometimes it hurts when he put it in all the way. Is it an underlying issue like endometriosis or can it be because he’s too big? And yes....it is pretty big 😆

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No lol. Your must not know much about the female body, and that's ok especially because it seems like your young and I love being able to educate girls and boys. Ok so every woman has a cervix and during the month it will get higher and lower. So when your cervix is lower your more likely to hit it during sex. Although it can still hit your cervix even if your cervix is high. Especially if your having deep penetration like in doggy style. Yes it will hurt when it hits it and if gets hit a lot it can actually cash it to bruise and be in pain for a few days, possibly cramps and possibly light bleeding. So when your having sex and it hurts you need to immediately tell him that and tell him to not go in quite as deep or change positions.

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Some great notes from other ladies about changing positions to avoid poking your cervix and to communicate! 
That type of communication during sex doesn’t have to be awkward. When you need to change positions because you’re in pain, don’t be afraid to tell him in a sultry, breathy, teasing voice things like
- you’re just too big for me to handle in that position!
- I may need some long term training from you so I will be able to fully take you in!
- I want you to take me in XXX position so I can really feel your cock!
- get in XXX position! I’m in control now!
If he is constantly causing pain though, that should be a full conversation so you can both brainstorm ways to keep sex enjoyable for both of you!
It may take time for you body to accommodate, make sure to have enough lube and foreplay will also help with vaginal elasticity. Play around with positions and note if you feel more pain during certain times of the month (if you’re not already, I would encourage you to track your cervical position in the app).
If you want to stimulate his entire shaft but cannot fully take him at that time, try using a hand to firmly wrap around his base like an extension of your own vagina. Play with angles and pressures too 😉
Different types of pain can mean different things, if you only feel that pain when he is deep, it is likely nothing medical. 
If, however, you experience that pain without sex (and not just tender from a super session) like severe cramps, pain, and bloating around your period, or sharp pains on either side of your lower abdomen, then definitely talk to your doctor or medical professional about the possibility of endometriosis, cysts, digestive issues, hormone/neurotransmitter imbalances or other conditions. Though everyone is different and with so many variables that affect symptoms, I have heard from women with endometriosis describe their periods as severe and debilitating; for 2-3 days or even nearly every single day of their cycles! 😖 if that doesn’t sound like you, it’s probably just your man 😏

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Personally, I love that kinda pain. 😈 It's likely just cause it's big. If you experience pain or are uncomfortable at other times (Not immediately during or following sex), you can always check in with your doc.

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I have the same problem with mine

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he's probably hitting your cervix which hurts like a bitch lol my husband is well endowed as well so I know that feeling.  doggy style is supposed to put you at a better angle. try it out! and definitely speak up and tell him

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My boyfriend is big and at the start couldn’t get it in or when it got in it would hurt afterwards. We figured out I wasn’t wet enough and haven’t had any problems since

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I wish I had those problems 😁😁..

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If after a lot of foreplay and lube it still hurts I'd ask a doctor about endometrosis. That was my biggest clue something was wrong and I was right. I had to get an IUD to help it but there are times i still experience pain

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