Want to die.. please HELP

I'm 25 and in a serious relationship from the past 7-8 years(too long right!!). Anyway now his parents wants to get him married and my parents doesn't want it. Because our families are not in good terms lately. And also I'm a medical student whereas my boyfriend's job is not so decent (preacher/pastor) according to my father. My mom is okay wit my bf because we are kind of relatives to my mom's side. So I cannot go against to my dad coz it may lead to my parents fight. And also I cannot leave my boyfriend for my parents as 7-8 years is not an easy one. What should I do?? I cannot wait for many years for my dads approval as their parents are forcing him for a marriage. Wat should I do?? I can neither leave my boyfriend nor my parents ((

BTW I'm from India.. nd our tradition is parents searching for a groom of their choice n getting is married 🤦