Telling my mother

My mother can be selfish and make things about her. When I had my son she decided that two weeks after my due she was gonna get married. That’s just an example. My mom has been very paranoid about COVID and I get it. But I know the moment I tell her I’m pregnant again she will make it about her about how she can possibly loose me to COVID. I’m afraid she won’t be happy or excited, she’ll just miserable and sad about it rather than supportive. Like I get it but we also live in a state where we are currently at a low infection rate. My job does kinda expose me to the virus but not directly not like a healthcare worker. So I get it but there’s ways to be careful and take precautions. My point is that I’m afraid she will put her fears on me. On this news that should be happy news. I don’t want to tell her until I’m much further along.