Finally left...🤦🏻‍♀️

So.. I ended up pregnant at 17, had my son at 18.. the guy that I had my kid and I were dating for a while before I had my kid... as soon as I have my kid I basically wanted to move closer to my boyfriend because he lived an hour and a half away ... he didn’t have his own place so I moved into his parents house......and holy shit... it was fucking terrible, I’m 21 now and just left 4 months ago... spent about 3 years living with him (oh and btw we got married 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ within a few months of me living there)

His mom was ALWAYS butting into our business, which I know that it’s her house but for fuck sakes... we would be In our room arguing and she would burst into the room and get in the middle of it... and she would turn us against eachother ... she would basically go to me and would say “oh He said this about you” and would go to him and would say “oh she said this about you” 😂

He was extremely controlling but never wanted to spend quality time together... his mom would offer to watch our kid so that way we could go on dates... and he would say no every. single. time. 🤦🏻‍♀️

The things that he “liked” when we dated like his interests ..(music, movies, etc) literally changed as SOON as we got married .. so I legit felt like i didn’t even know him at all... we ended up having NOTHING in common.

So I ended up going to a counselor because his mom kept nagging us to go non stop ... and I told the counselor that he kept pushing me while having sex.. 🤦🏻‍♀️ aka trying to making me do things I wasn’t comfortable with... even got to the point in him grabbing me and actually tearing my skin open ... to the point in having blood EVERYWHERE..

Few weeks later ... I find him watching porn in the bathroom .. after I had just got back from taking my son on a play date with his friend that lives a few houses down...

So many other things went on in that house like

His dad would cuss me out when I would tell him not to touch me inappropriately In the KITCHEN!!! He would say “shut up you’re being loud”

His mom would say “you’re bipolar for constantly getting mad at him”

Even the counselor told me to leave him 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ she would see both of us and would basically yell at him ....

RANT IS OVER! 😂😂 had to vent since I finally left

Anyone else with a similar story?!😂

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