Not laid back

My husband and I have only been trying since end of Jan, when I had my (non-hormonal) IUD removed. Felt odd after 1st cycle and was 3 days late but ended up with BFN. I know it's early days yet and everyone tells me to just relax but it's tough when you want something so badly and are surrounded by friends having babies who say it just happened immediately for them! Had a massage on Monday to chill out a bit but is anyone else making themselves nuts? I'm far too impatient!!