Is it normal or am I an idiot?

Question

Is it normal for couples to have bad patches? 
If my boyfriend gets annoyed or mad it’s always my fault I’ll be the one in the firing line and for the most of it I just put up with it but why? 
Is it normal for this to happen or is he just a jackass and I deserve better? 
Do perfect relationships even exists? I’ve never met a man who treats his woman like a queen like do they actually exist?
Edit: I treat my man like a king I do everything for him the only thing I don’t do is wipe his ass which if he asked I probably would.

Answer

Every couple has rough patches and arguments on occasion. However, it’s never only one person’s fault. My husband and I had a small argument the other day and he went for a drive to calm down and I felt like shit and laid on the couch. But when he got back we cuddled on the couch, we both apologized for our actions and words, and we continued the original conversation without arguing and came to a compromise and agreement. 
If your arguments or rough patches are always “your fault” and he never apologizes, that’s not normal.

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Perfect relationships do not exist. The reality is even the best relationships have rough spots. I love my husband to death, he’s an amazing man, but we have our moments.  Sometimes you have to just take a step back and understand that you are two different people, and while things that bother you might seem “obvious” and like a big deal...men are different.  If he’s a good person and it works most of the time, I think giving up on it is silly.  You will never find an absolutely “perfect” relationship with no disagreement.  Sometimes you will feel totally in love and sometimes it will be hard. But disagreements, if handled like adults...can be very healthy.  Sometimes it’s good to really think about what’s bothering you instead of just blurting things out when you’re pissed. I know when I’m angry it’s just a bad time to try and talk so I wait until I feel like I’m being more rational. Sometimes what’s bugging me passes and isn’t such a big deal anymore, and if not...we have it out and are done with it. The most important thing (in my opinion) is to not say things you don’t mean out of anger.  I’ve made that mistake more times than I can count in my life. Words do hurt, but mostly it hurts knowing someone said things with the intention of hurting you, and sadly you can’t take them back.  If you can avoid doing that at all costs, you can have arguments that are productive and not toxic to the relationship.

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Relationships go through rough patches but there will be a point where enough is enough if ether of you don’t respect each other then it’s not going to work

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My bf treats me like a queen. I’m actually really spoiled when I think about it. But we have rough patches of course. That part is perfectly normal. What’s not normal is just taking it, and saying if he’d ask you to you’d wipe his ass. It sounds like you’re being a little too “sub” for his “dom”.

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My husband treats me like a queen but we have rough patches 💁🏻 we are never aggressive toward each other in any way though. That’s not something we find acceptable in a relationship. Also if a female wants to be treated like a queen then she should give the same treatment she expects to receive. In other words he spouse should be treated like a king. You can’t expect a peasant to be able to handle a queen 💁🏻

Is it normal or am I an idiot?

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