Moving is Stressful

My fiance and I are trying to move state and it's so fucking stressful. I lost my job at the beginning of August and he in the middle of July, his best friend offered us place to stay.

He keeps spending the moving money on stupid shit, I know I'm guilty of it too but when I see 50 dollar purchases and 75 dollar withdrawals...it makes me super upset.

I don't know what to do and I'm regretting ever getting this money from my grandfather in the first place and agreeing to the move.