It’s normal right ?

My husband and I have been married since December and we dated for almost a year before that we have been having some trouble the first year .

He has a lot of communication issues (mostly not talking to me right ).

He told me about a few weeks ago that I wasn’t tight enough anymore .

I have had 2 kids one was for surrogacy and the other I have shes 4 and the other one is 2

He dose not want her to get certain vaccines and he gives me grief about her taking medicine. (Just went to the doctor and had to be put on steroids than antibiotics)