Bf moved me out?

Question

Long term bf of 4 years moved me in. Lived together for 2 years and then moved me out because we were arguing a lot. I thought it would be temporary but no, Ive lived alone now for a year. He is completely content living separately, but I feel the relationship is going nowhere. 
He will not leave me alone. He texts and calls everyday. We spend weekends together. A few nights out of the week together. We are both faithful. I love him. But I am so unhappy living separately. I am 30 years old. He is 33. 
I know my option is to " talk to him and tell him how you feel".
Tried that. Multiple times. He says get over it or leave. I feel so unheard.
So what do I do?  Do I go no contact? Do I stop giving him relationship benefits when I am not happy with the situation ?

Answer

Unfortunately he's right. You either need to accept how things are or you need to find someone who is better suited for you.

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You pretty much just told yourself you need to leave him. You I have already stated that you feel like your relationship is going nowhere.it's better to actually end it and go find somebody else. you don't want to be 10 years later  still the same situation . wasted half your life when you could have actually went out there  found somebody who wanted what you wanted . probably would have already made the next step with you by 4 years.

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Well he told you if you aren't happy then leave. If he is serious about you he will make it work if he can't bother he is not worth it.

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He must not want to live together, which, personally, I get that. I have not really liked living with significant others (I like my space, hate sleeping next to people every night, don't like how people get too used to each other in domestic life.) 
I hope you know why he wants to live by himself right now- and is it temporary? Is he growing as a person? Is he afraid living together is stifling the relationship or his development?? 
If not it probably needs further discussed.
He may not be willing to compromise, but perhaps eventually he will want to live together again- you can only know by talking to him. If he wants to live separately forever, and has different relationship goals, then you may really have to think if these things are deal breakers for you. 
I could definitely see it being weird not living together after living together so long.

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Is your goal marriage? Is his goal different? You need to evaluate whether you’re on the same page and if not call it quits

Bf moved me out?

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