am I overreacting?

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so I have been with my bf for almost a year. I have a kid and he does not.  I’m 25 and he’s 28.
We went to my pool yesterday and I wore a super cute one piece. He sees me and instantly laughs. He goes “why are you wearing a onesie?” And I was like “I don’t know, it’s cute” and he goes “no it’s absolutely not cute” and continued to laugh. He KNOWS I have body issues especially after having my baby. 
The thing is- this isn’t the first time he has made me feel like crap about my body.  We went on a crazy hike a few months back and I struggled with it (fell down, lost two toenails, etc) and he was getting so frustrated and just made me feel so low. He brought up in front of friends how I made it seem so hard, but it wasn’t at all and he wishes I could be in better shape. 
I am trying to workout and get better- I’ve already lost 50lbs. But it sucks that he makes me feel this way.  Is this worth working on or should I break up with him?
I want to be with someone who builds me up, not makes me feel worse

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You said it yourself....you want someone who builds you up. Is he building you up? Is he supporting you? Loving you for you? Respecting you?
Sorry that you're dealing with this. None of us can tell you what to do. We can only give our input. And my advice is find someone who doesn't make you feel like you're hard to love.

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You def just laid it out already.
He doesn’t seem like the most supportive partner..
I would re-evaluate my relationship.

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He sounds like a douche. I would definitely be re-evaluating the relationship.

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He sounds awful. Your body looks great to me. I wouldn’t be with someone who made me doubt myself.

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One, you look amazing and congrats on your progress! Two, you should definitely be with someone who builds you up, not tears you down. I’d start with a conversation with him about it. If nothing changes, then yes you should leave.

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I feel he’s been plain with you...Sometimes we tell people how we feel with putting their feelings into consideration, that’s what he did but he didn’t know how hurt you’re about that. I make fun of my husband sometimes, telling him he need to lose what or he should stop eating sweets and all that..sometimes it comes out straightforward and he get annoyed but he always tell me how he feels. Since then I stopped been annoying but instead tell him how I feels with love and he puts my thoughts into consideration. He starts going to the gym and losing weight now. You just need to have a serious convo with him about how you feel, that’s all

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Time to dump him.

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I think it’s worth a conversation. Tell him how he makes you feel and what you need from him as your partner. If he can’t be that guy, end it. But he must have some redeeming qualities if you are with him so give him a shot.

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Definitely not healthy in a relationship and the fact that he even says that shows his level of maturity. You can try talking to him about it and letting him know how you feel but if he tries to defend himself then it’s time for you to walk away.

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Keep up the weight loss and lose him :)

am I overreacting?

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