I may sound like a bad person for this 🤷
So, let me start off by saying that I'm adopted. I was adopted to my grandparents at the age of 5 and they adopted my siblings as well. Our parents didn't want us period. So flash forward to growing up... As we grew up our grandmother (who I call mom and have since I was 5) tried to keep our real parents in our lives but our real mother was so selfish she didn't want her husband around his own kids and they made every excuse ever. Flash forward again to our adult years. We grew up, we got married, we had children (I'm still expecting my first) and they decided to be more involved (for attention). Well Let's change the topic to me. I was the last to get married, and the last to get pregnant. My two siblings (one is still married to a dead beat and the other is single with a kid and they both live at home still) still allowed them to be in their life, and do did I to a point until my biological mother decided one night that she was going to talk to my husband and send him nudes (he had his part in it too but we've worked through it). He told me what happened, he showed me the messages where she told him not to tell me and I messaged her finally and told her I didn't want her around us or my child anymore. That started drama but I was still going to allow my real dad to see our son because he hadn't done anything. Weeks and mother passed and she tried to make it seem like she was innocent and I just avoided her as much as possible. Fast forward to her situation now. Her husband left her, I feel like we would be able to have a relationship again since he left her. She complains about how she's a good person and about how people have turned on her, but here's where the rant comes in.
Ahem.. She's a whore. Has always been a whore and will always be a whore. She pretends to be innocent and a good wife and person but few people know the truth about her. She gets on facebook complaining about how she's hated on for "moving on" (not even a week after her and her husband split) but he isn't getting hate for finding someone else. She's cheated on him continuously and treated him like crap and kept him away from his children and kept him in such a financial bind because she was too lazy to work or even perform her roll as a wife. She always went to work with him and sat there until he was off of work.
I can't feel sorry for this woman. I don't feel anything for this woman. Her past speaks volumes as do her recent actions. Trying to get your daughters husband to sleep with you then lying and saying it was another woman he was talking to. Making it out to seem as if you get screwed over and you're innocent. God has moved her from my life and it was emotionally hard to deal with what happened (I was 20 something weeks pregnant at the time) but with the lord's help I got over it and forgave my husband and God forgave him and our marriage still may have bumpy spots but it's gotten better. This woman deserves everything that will come to her. She can complain and play victim all she wants, but when you're a whore thats what you get. You can have it all and lose everything. God can and will bring you down if you mess with things you have no business messing with.
Its a long rant and I may seem like a bad person but I just thought it was funny how she still plays victim and talks about how if she keeps faith and prays god will help her through what she's going through, but in reality it's her own fault. She must seek forgiveness first and that's something she won't do
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.