Am I wrong ?

Hi so my child’s father wants his family to meet our child & to see her but because of the pandemic,. I told him to wait just to be safe, even my own family hasn’t seen her in person.. he’s tried to have me come take her to a birthday party & now a cookout 😕, he told me that him seeing her was good enough & that we were on the same page now he is doing this.. he’s going on about how his family is super clean & because they have asthma that can’t get it 😐😐 which is stupid because anybody can get it, how only immediate family wants to touch her & see her but people can have no symptoms or little to none & still can be positive so I don’t even trust that, shes only 3 months old I would never forgive myself if I took her over there & she got sick, you just never know anymore.. one of my cousins out of state had practiced safe distancing & wore her mask & one of her co workers got it so next thing you know it.. she was positive 😕 I just want to be safe just in case so I don’t think I’m wrong for saying no but he’s getting upset because he thinks I’m trying to be in control of her all the time or I never let him take her anywhere.. it’s enough that he sees her even though he is out everyday.. I still let him see her because he’s her father so shouldn’t that be enough for right now ? he’s saying how she needs to get a feel of what she’ll experience when shes older.. she has plenty of time to do that 😕 but anyway just let me know what you guys think.