Advice

I need some advice so my baby’s father and I split up . We are currently on bad terms I told him I did not want to fight with anymore and just focused on co parenting better for our son . He’s currently 7 months old . Well all he said was “ok”. We recently got into a Huge fight because him and his “ex” are I think getting back together he didn’t say that but pretty much told me she’s going to be around our son . I disagreed bc she has called him a bastard in the past and she always caused drama for no reason . Always talked bad about me and disrespected me . Her and my ex share 2 daughters which I was around when me and him were together I never treated them bad or spoke bad about them . She never reached out to me or try to have any type of relationship since I was around her daughters she was so focused on having nothing to do w me . Well now since tables have turned she still hates me I know this bc ever since he got back w her he has been very rude and just pretty much trying to show her that he doesn’t care about me anymore which honestly I don’t care I just want to co parent. I was going to go to court to not have her around my son but he made things so hard and was not willing to see our son before court unless it was his way only . He said he was not filing because he was broke. I was forced to accept her being around our son . I want him to be in his life . Well I agreed and we only text about our son only but I’m sure she monitores what we talk about and what he does . Should I reach out ? Should I text her ? I don’t want problems between us and since she’s going to be around my son I don’t want hate . I’m not sure how she is going to respond . Any advice?