PEOPLE WHO CAN RELATE??

I have been keeping an eye on a mole obsessively. It has for sure changed over the past year, in size and color. Well I have already been freaking out about it, and I looked on the other side of my arm and I also have a mole there that has changed in size and color. Now I have 2 moles that I’m worrying about.

I’m terrified to go to the doctor to get it checked out. Appointment to see the doctor is until the end of October. Until then, I rely on you guys.

Anybody else have had moles, 1 or more than one, that changed in color and shape and size within months that you were sure were bad and came back normal?

Changes in moles whether in shape, color, size in more than 1 mole always bad or can there be benign reasons as well?

Please share your insight and stories guys :(