Why am I being targeted?

Why do I feel like I am being targeted by everyone?. Long story, I got married in Nov 2015. My MIL kept pestering me about a baby from January. My husband was in negatives financially paying off his loans. We just started saving in March 2016 when he got his first bonus, out of courtesy we told my MIL she told my husband to give her that money since she spent on his marriage. Then kept asking me to have a baby, asking if we had any good news? I got annoyed and eventually told her the fact that we are alive should be good news for her! His sister got married in November 2016 and we couldn't go coz of visa issues. My parents went for the wedding and MIL cries her heart out and tells everyone that my husband has changed after marriage. She had lied to my husband saying that FIL had got heart attack which he later found was a lie because my husband confronted his dad and he told him that it was a chest pain. In FEB 2017, We went to visit hubby's grandparents who live with his uncle and aunty in Boston and his aunt really misbehaved with me, saying that I haven't even "tried" to have a baby, that I don't know how to cook, I can't drive or have a job( I was waiting for a work permit at that time which they knew). His aunt kept comparing me to her daughter who had a baby, could drive, cooked, and had a job. I used to cook but when she put steel plate instead of a lid, it burnt my hand and she said I am literally incapable of doing anything. What they DINT know was that we were trying to have a baby but were not conceiving only to later find out it was due to male infertility. We now have a 8 month old after an

IVF

treatment. In 2017 I had an ankle fracture. MIL used to keep sending me idiotic forwards to WhatsApp chats in his language (hubby's mother tongue is different than mine, which MIL KNEW) . Hubby told her to stop sending us forwards since he was taking care of me and it used to annoy us since my phone beeps. To this MIL blocked us both on WhatsApp. Never cared to check if I recovered from my fracture. She came to visit her brother for 3 months and towards later made his uncle message saying that she misses him and is scared to talk to him ( I guess she felt guilty of what she did). My husband was so pissed he dint reply nor met her. it's been so long. My husband dint talk to his parents for 3 years. In the midst of all this i lost my dad in 2018. I can't forgive my in-laws and his aunt for treating me like garbage. Am I overreacting to be feeling like this??