Single Mommas

Hey guys just wondering how the arrangments between inlaws and your baby is. Like do you bring baby over and pick them up??? I've always brought my toddler over since he was a baby. We lived 30 mins to 45mins apart. Now I have a new baby and they still ask me to drive just my toddler over? I think they should atleast pick up or drop off but they want me to do both? Am I being fair? Also only the Aunty calls to checl up on the kids reg other than that nothing happens unless I bring em.