How long should you wait? UPDATE

I just started seeing a guy I really click with. We have so many of the same interested my sister thinks I made him lol. We just went on our first date Thursday and it ended well, really well.

He ended up staying at my place talking and watching movies till 3 in the morning and we also did some things. We made out and he went down on me.

We agreed to go slow and no go all the way until we knew eachother better.

I have a history of “sex on the first date” and those relationships never ended well because it seemed to be the only thing we did.

I can already tell I really like this guy, and he’s willing to wait as long as I need to be ready.

I must admit that, because he’s so amazing, I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. That a main reason behind me waiting as well.

So my question is, how long should I wait? Til the 3rd date? A month?

UPDATE:

So it wasn’t a second date? But he did come over on Sunday, a few dats after the first date and

We did it 🙈🙈

It was crazy mind blowing, like FUCK

THIS GUY

HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING