So.. I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this, but... recently I went viral on TikTok.. the video basically showed me and my husband gaining weight since my son was born.. we’ve been receiving a lot of hate for basically “letting ourselves go” , but honestly I don’t see it that way. We have definitely gained weight, but I don’t feel like it’s out of hand. For my husband the hate doesn’t matter, but I took it offensively. Because it’s hurtful as a first time mom who didn’t “snap back” like other moms... and I’ve always been insecure about it. I made the mistakes posting it again because honestly I had no clue that it would go viral (1st and 2nd time) and for us it was jokes because I only had like 5 followers and now I have 4K and over 2m views. He doesn’t want me to delete it because he feels like it’s letting people win and letting them get to me. Which is understandable. Idk what my point is here I’m just needing to rant. People are thinking we’re doing it for views (and I thought of just deleting the account) but HONESTLY tiktok is entertaining and that’s what I seen it as not for my page to go viral and have people fat shaming us. We thought it would be funny.. I thought tiktok was becoming banned so I posted some drafts and it went viral again 😭😭 People are saying why blame your child for making you fat, but it was a joke when I posted it and I know I’m the only one who can control my body.. It just sucks because I have been trying to loose weight, but it hasn’t been easy for me.. we’ve been together for five years and a lot has changed.. I just wish people wouldn’t fat shame and realize that not everyone can snap back to how they were before getting pregnant.. I’m ranting about this because I don’t understand how people can be so mean and bully others.. (and to add.. it’s mostly men who are being rude. I roach none of them ever have wives who get pregnant and can’t drop the weight quick) there’s people who aren’t as strong as us ad could take this the wrong way and harm themselves. Words do hurt and I wish I could get thought point out without being bullied for saying so.. here’s a picture of us when we first got together and now.