Advice

**update- he sent another message saying he hadn’t heard from me. So I messaged him on social media and apparently isn’t getting my texts?

I started talking to this guy about a month ago. We have a lot in common and similar beliefs. Even like the same music, colors, food, etc.

We texted a lot. And we talked for the first time on the phone two days ago, for over 5 hours.

He said he loves getting to know me and hopes that we hit it off and talked about what we’d like in the future, and he just seemed really interested. He said even though we just started talking, he already felt really happy Just talking to me.

He lives 2 hours away. He’s currently at home on vacation is what he told me. He works as a district manager.

Yesterday, the day after we spoke on the phone, he hardly messaged me compared to before. He just said he hoped our day was going well, and that I made him happy then several hours later, he said his blood pressure was up is why he didn’t talk to me much. I asked if he was ok, and all he said was he heard a song that made him think of me. Didn’t answer if he was ok:/

This morning he asked how I was doing. And idk. Something feels off, but I also have Aspergers and anxiety too so it could just be that.

Am I being catfished or something?

What are your thoughts?

*he has family that have pictures tagged of him, but he himself doesn’t have anything on social media except a picture of a grandparent. He said he never uses the account, but wanted to talk to me. We talked about a plan on meeting halfway.