Do I sound horrible?

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So in July hubby had an accident at work and fractured his vertebrae. Well now he is so much better but still not back to work as he's waiting for a hospital appointment. Anyway I'm starting to feel really frustrated because I work all the time and when I get home the house is always a mess. And also I just want a bit of me time I'm at work with people and when I'm not at work he's always at home, he just doesn't do anything. I love him to bits but its getting a bit too much at the moment. I can't sleep cos I'm stressing over everything

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Thanks ladies. We moved house as well during this time and I spoke to him about it thinking that cos we had a new house he would want to keep it tidy he said that he does but there is nothing to show of it. He's supposed to wear a back brace but he doesn't because he's not in pain any more. I stayed up last night while he was asleep just so I could have some time to myself.

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Hun u have to teach him how to be clean takes sum time but tell him how u feel also leave the cleaning to him if he is able to if he's not then just have patients maby u can have one room wer u can lock urself away that's what I do just have patients tell him in a funny sari way that u don't like mess mines at home to he cannot work at all cus he's not allowed to but I try to see positives side n make him do lil jobs that I know he can do

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My husband got in a work accident about 2 1/2 years ago and was out of work for a year and a half with a broken leg and dislocated shoulder. It was tough, and there were a lot of times I resented him because I was still working all day long and had to come home and clean, cook and take care of him. It takes a toll on you! If he's well enough to do things around the house, just ask him to help you out while your at work. I did this when my husband was finally walking and able to use his arms, and he really did help me out every day. It made life a little easier knowing I had one less thing to do when I got home. My husband was more then happy to help out when I told him what needed to be done. Just be patient with him and know he's gone through a lot too with his injury! Good luck!

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It's called the second shift. Unfortunately, woman typically do 2/3 of the housework. Although, I do not agree with it especially in this case when you're working while he's staying at home.

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That would drive me crazy!

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Talk to him about it. He should be doing something at home at the very least.

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Have you talked to him about it?

Do I sound horrible?

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