Things are finally looking up.

To start off, my husband and I have been together for 4 years. Over the last 4 years, we’ve overcome so so many obstacles set in our way. Since having our son last September, our relationship has been put through the ringer. We hardly see each other because we work opposite shifts. I work 11 pm to 8 am and he works 9 am to 6 pm. So we don’t sleep in the same bed. Its caused a lot of tension between the two of us. Last week, my husband sat me down and said “We need to figure something out. I don’t want to be together just to be together like my parents. [Our son] deserves to see mom and dad loving each other and growing together.” We are amazing at being mom and dad together, but as husband and wife...We’ve both been struggling to connect. So, I decided to take on a new job that will allow me to have that time with both my husband and son together and actually sleep in bed with my husband 😂 And it’s done wonders for us lol. We’ve been going on more dates, we’ve been having more meaningful talks, we finally getting back into the groove of how our relationship was before we became parents. I’m glad we could figure out that the root of all of the tension between us (work), and finding a solution that benefits myself, my husband, and our son.

Side note: This little guy is our whole world 😭 Please don’t misinterpret anything when I talk about marriage and being a parent lol. Being a mom has been the biggest blessing of my life.

Picture below because we haven’t taken pictures all together like this in a while. Aren’t my boys so handsome? 🥺🥺