How much is too much neediness and missing of ones boyfriend?

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I miss my boyfriend. He’s been busy with school and when he does have a small amount of free time he told me he will just play video games for now and visit me later. Like I understand we don’t have to be together 24/7 but like even when I want to just call he’s busy doing homework and then heads to bed. I then get angry because I just want attention and I’m not sure if this is healthy on my side or if I’m over reacting or if this is normal and happens to others too? So ya any advice?

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Find yourself a new man. If he want to be with you hell nake the time

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It’s okay for him game when his schedule allows it. It’s also okay for him to do his homework before bed. Try to find your own hobbies to keep you busy as well. But if it gets to the point where he’s not making an effort to see you or even send you a quick text then yes that’s a problem

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It's ok to have emotional needs, and he has them too-
So it's rough, but I understand why you feel like that, your emotional needs aren't being met. And it sounds like you are responding reasonably, not blowing up at him or anything.

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Talk to him and tell him you feel a bit neglected. Sounds like he’s pretty busy and sometimes when we’re busy we just want to be alone or relax on our own a bit. Hes probably just taking care of his business and focused on getting his things done.
I don’t agree that leaving him will be of any good. Relationships are hard sometimes and we don’t always get the attention we want when we want it. Ive had times where I worked 40 hours a week and had school so I couldn’t talk to my bf as much. I did try but like your boyfriend I’d relax first and then give him a call. And he understood.
I suggest during this time find someone new for you to do and occupy your time. I do think you should tell him how you feel so hopefully he offers up some solution, tries a bit more to call you or see you or at least gives you reassurance. I doubt this sort of behavior from him will last forever if it just recently began happening do to his responsibilities

How much is too much neediness and missing of ones boyfriend?

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