Was it my fault?

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I was taking out trash... minding my business. 
This guy started hollering at me. 
He said hey repeatedly. 
Then he said you can’t talk? I said “no”
He said you got a man? I said “yeah” 
Kept walking. 
He hollered back. “I thought you were out here tryna make money” 
I told my bf everything but he said it was my fault cause I responded.

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No it’s not your fault. Because there’s also the other possibility hat if you just would’ve kept ignoring that man he would’ve gotten aggressive

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Why is your boyfriend blaming you?
That’s very immature.... 
you don’t need to be with a person who makes you feel at fault in situations where you’re needing to feel comforted

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Rape culture at its finest

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Ew, I am sorry you went through that.

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He's the type to say the woman was asking to be raped.

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How are you supposed to be able to control people's assumptions about you, and why should you ignore someone you don't know are making those assumptions?

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Not your fault one bit.

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Your bf needs to grow up. This wont be the last time you get hit on in public. There was nothing wrong with you saying you have a bf.

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Either your boyfriend needs a reality check or you should think about leaving him.... someone who blames the person who is being cat called is rude. It wouldn’t matter if you were walking fucking naked. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT IF SOMEONE HITS ON YOU. While taking out the fucking garbage. Actually now I’m really fucking annoyed by both immature dudes.

Was it my fault?

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