No support

Anyone else not feeling supported by their partners? I texted him at 12 telling him i was in the bathroom crying at work because of a really hurtful stressful day, had my first prenatal check up, and he messages me on the way home from work saying he is going to a buddies for a drink. How could he care so little about my day and most importantly the prenatal Appointment. I mean he missed out on hearing the babies heart beat for the first time. I feel like i am constantly pushing him to understand why i am tired and didnt do dishes or just to take interest in his babies life. Heaven forbid he should pick up a book!