Should I be worried?

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I noticed my fiance downloaded "signal". I wasn't snooping I noticed it when he opened his apps. Should I be worried about him cheating? I'm having Hella anxiety and trying extremely hard not to go through his phone.

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What's signal?

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Is he in the military?

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Yeah that's a messaging app. The only time you really ever use that is when you're trying to hide something. That's kind of a red flag.

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Is that a dating app? Just confront him about it civilly, that’s the best way.

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It’s a safer WhatsApp, people are starting to use that instead. Get some help for your anxiety otherwise you will end up pushing him away.

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As a girlfriend or fiance or wife you have the full right to go through his phone. You should not be having life breaking secrets and you have the full right to know it. Can you see messages on signal once you get access to the phone? Try it yourself, else ask him upfront with out giving hints before so that he doesn't have time to remove them. If he shares his phone and msges  calmly with you, well and good. If he guilt-trips you or denies or gets nervous, then something is wrong.

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I had to google it, is “signal” for work? This sounds like something we would use in a company for privacy of what we are working on.

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Girl, if my s.o. has a issue with me going through or getting on his phone then he can take it and go because if he has nothing to hide then what's the problem? Don't be ashamed, don't feel bad, if you think he's doing something, grab that phone right in front of him and look. You'll know just by his reaction what the answer is. I see so many women say how it's wrong to go through his phone or check his stuff. No, if he wants a secret life then he can do it single, if not I better have access to his emails, phones exc as he should mine cause relationships aren't built on lies and secrets. He's definitely up to something, now grow a back bone, don't put up with it and find out before you waste anymore of your time.

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Just ask him calmly why he has it. His answer and reaction will tell you all you need to know.

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It’s not normal to have a “secret message app” especially in a relationship. It’s a flag but only way to know why he has it, to ask him.

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