How do you guys hold your partner accountable for poor treatment?

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I’ve been with the same guy for some time now. Lately, he’s been treating me poorly with the way he talks to me. I normally just ignore, but it seems he’s becoming more comfortable talking to me disrespectful... for no reason at all ! I normally let it go, but it’s starting to really get to me. I want to hold him accountable so it sinks in that it’s not okay. I’ve told him how it makes me feel via text and he just doesn’t respond or ignores and makes it seem like i’m being annoying and problematic when it’s HIM.  I used to believe it was me, but i’d get a second opinion and 100% of the time they agreed it wasn’t me.

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what you allow, will continue. Simple.

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I call him out on the disrespect, I don’t ignore it. The more you ignore the more permission you’re giving him to continue doing it. 
However my man RARELY disrespects me, and usually calls himself out when he cools down.

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Talk to him in person, not during an argument and not after he just said something disrespectful. Tell him you are not okay with way he is talking to you and that if it doesn’t improve that you will stop seeing him. Don’t be hurt, or emotional, or whatever just tell him like it is treat me better or I’m done.

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Call out his behaviour when it happens not in a text message later. And don’t ever ignore it because they means it’s okay. As soon as my husband says something that I think is believe the line I call him out until he understands what he said was wrong. If he doesn’t get it I tell him to reflect on his behaviour and when he is ready to apologise we will talk about it. If you ignore you’re giving him permission to continue his behaviour.

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Well, first off definitely don’t ignore it. Call it out immediately. The second he says whatever rude thing you tell him that its not ok right then and there.

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The way someone speaks to other people is a reflection of how they speak to themselves. So he’s probably insecure and going through something that triggers him especially right now. It doesn’t make it okay though- he might just not be a match for you anymore.

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Whenever things get disrespectful I always simply ask “would you say this to me in front of my dad” and he gets quiet after that

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If your guy is being disrespectful to you/verbally abusive AND gaslighting you by telling you that you're crazy....RUN.

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I just straight up say “I don’t talk to you in a disrespectful manner so you sure as hell ain’t about to talk to me like that”. It helps if you stay calm if he’s yelling and calmly say “lower your voice, I’m right here” or at least that’s what helped me when he tried to get loud, he was almost whispering afterwards😅

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Hold him accountable by leaving and not putting up with that shit .... simple.

How do you guys hold your partner accountable for poor treatment?

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