Hair care products for my 4C hair

As the title suggests, I need advice for hair products for my kinky and coily 4C hair.

I have always struggled with my hair. Between frizz, dryness, heat damage, relaxers, straightening, braiding, split ends, breakage. I have not been very good to my hair over the years.

The only time I was really good was when I was pregnant. My hair grew! And I was off work because of my high risk pregnancy so I had 7 months where I actually diligently took care of my hair. (Natural, proper conditioning, didn't use heat for a year and a half even after I had my baby)

However. When life got busy again, the first ball i dropped was my hair.

I have since gotten better. But I need new advice and new products. I used Shea Moisture during my pregnancy and even afterwards. However I think my body did change. And the same products I used then didn't do any good for my hair. Even my hairdresser (when I went to put in box braid) said my hair was dry brittle and the worst she has ever seen damage wise. And I had been using that line for ages before hand.

Even now, Shea Moisture is not the product line for me. It builds up I find. My hair doesn't love it like it used to.

So. Dont tell me to use Shea Moisture!

Give me new products. New advice. Of course, sulfate and paraben free. The more natural the line or products the better!!