Toxic relationship-Pregnant
I didn’t realize it before or maybe I did and ignored it but I do not like my husband. Together going on 11 years and he is a lazy miserable person. I’ve always worked full time and supported him while he chased pipe dreams and now that I’m pregnant I don’t have the patience for it. He hates working and doesn’t hold a full time job or even part time.
He works these gig jobs like postmates/instacart and complains if he ever has to put in more than 4hrs a day because it interferes with his gym time. Like right now he is getting ready slamming things making a bunch of noise to show he’s bothered that I signed him up for an extra shift today.
I have a federal job so I pay all the bills and he just keeps groceries in the house. All our family is on the other side of the country so no support there. We recently moved even further so he could chase his dreams and I’m left picking up all the financial slack. I’ve been so sick and took a few days off and it upsets me because I know I can’t take more than 2 days because my income is basically the only income.
18weeks and just want to escape him and this state but not go back home. Has anyone ever left a marriage while pregnant and moved to another state with no familial support?? I know I could find a new job easy but being pregnant makes me worry since I won’t have much time before giving birth... Is leaving feasible or do I just stay miserable until baby is born and a bit older?
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