Hair imagine

So I really like short hair. I have tried long hair and I'm miserable. Currently I have it to my butt. I want to cut it. My husband like long hair though. He likes how my hair is now. I don't know what to do. Please don't tell me it's my body I do what I want. I know this. But I also don't want to do something to anger/hurt/dress the relationship. Just like I wouldn't expect him to do something that I don't like. I just don't know what to do. 😥