Is Labor ever going to show??

I'm not sure what is even going on anymore.

39 and 4 days today. And I feel like I've had no signs whatsoever!

I have major pelvic pressure like something is about to fall out of me or like I'm constantly sitting on something, but ive felt this for weeks if not months now. It is a bit more than usual today though.

As I was sitting down in my recliner I felt a tiny bit of fluid coming out, so I grab just a kleenex to check shit out.

And the tissue was decently soaked but nothing since!

No mucus plug, no bloody mess.

No contractions.. unless I'm just oblivious to the feeling because the top of the uterus does get pretty hard and sometimes there's a wave.. buttttt again don't feel as though those are contractions. Instead just little girl moving around.

I'll try walking later once the hubby gets home, and I'll try bouncing again on the damn ball but the pelvic and hip pain is just ridiculous!

Oh and also had a little bout out diarrhea last night... are all of these decent signs that just no one talks about??