Social media bs, Please dont be rude

So in my head if past people ive hooked up with never ended with a negative blowout or was just a one time thing between friends of a long time ago i was always able to just forget i ever hooked up with them and seen them as people- friends. Not that we would hang but i do care about their general well being etc

I dont focus on the fact that we slept together once upon a time, Many of them ive known for years and ive followed them on insta as friends to see their talents and just keep it cool as no drama ever conspired. Ive unfollowed people that have emotionally hurt me and had drama with, but other people i just didnt care or get affected by them

Now my bf obviously has a problem with past partners liking or commenting on my stuff. He knows they are past partners because im an open book with him but I honestly never saw them as past partners and if it wasnt reminded to me it would have been forgotten out my brain

I see where hes coming from though. I guess i wouldnt feel comfortable if the situation was flipped around.

So i unfollowed 2 exes and another sexual partner that i know bother him. Its not worth it to me to upset him because i wouldnt hang out with them anyway if the situation presented itself, out of respect for him

Now i do have a couple other homies that ive slept with once or slightly dated many years back. Like 8years or so

I truly see them as homies and dont think that they just see me as a piece of ass. It does severely affect my bf and we broke up about all this but have gotten back together to try to move forward

I have unfollowed the people that i know for sure bother him, and i dunno this is all new to me...Im realizing okay these people were past partners and dont have a place in my life and im tryna see how i would feel if he followed past people hes hooked up with.

I know a lot of yall jump to unfollow and block people, thats just never been me. SO im just looking for advice because im not talking to friends about this.. but out of respect for my bf no matter if i see certain people as friends and not past partners, i should still unfollow them for the sake of my relationship, right?

Should i also remove them from following me? Im gonna be getting dressed up real nice soon for an event and i know that i will

post a pic. Not to be conceited but im sure i will get lots of love, and even though ive unfollowed them they still follow me and i would hate to trigger my bf if they were to comment or like. So i should also remove them from my followers list?

I love my bf with all my heart.

Its more than social media because these are also people he can see in real life while hes at work. I cant do anything about my past but i figure i can do something about who i presently associate with online.

Im more so asking about the past friends he doesnt know or see, for the sake of just respect and no triggers, they should all be unfollowed and removed as my followers? I would hate for him to ask me who they are and ill have to be like yea we hooked up one time..

Thank you sisters. Ive had a very emotional

past few days so please spare me the rudeness.