Do you think we as a society are too quick to label things as abusive these days?

We’re all guilty of displaying abusive traits at least once in our lives . Does that make us inherently bad / toxic people though?

An example- you’ve got a lot of stress going on in your life and that results in you being a little bit more moody and aggressive toward your partner than you should be. A lot of people are quick to call that relationship “toxic” or “abusive” when it’s in fact quite normal and human?

We tend to take our bad moods on the people we love most because they are our safe place. Is that really so bad?

Obviously there’s limits to things. But often I read stories on here about couples having an argument etc and so many people are jumping to terms such as abusive, controlling etc when it could just be a one off argument that got out of hand, which is quite normal and happens to everyone?

I’m not sure if I made a lot of sense here 🤷🏻‍♀️ but what do you think?