Which would you rather say

About kids that were in foster care or adoption centers? I know this one lady that says they were all took from their parents/families which sounds like they got abducted or it’s trafficking. The lady was telling her child she has to try to do better for her children before they get took like the mother was when she was a child was which to me sounds very harsh to say to someone because who are you to say that the child’s parents have no input in putting their child up for adoption and that someone would come and ‘take’ the child away. Before a child gets put up for adoption the family needs to go to court and prove why the family isn’t a good fit for the child, you can’t just take the child and force them some place else. I was also adopted and in foster care when I was a newborn to about 3 years old, I don’t see it as me being took from my parents I say that I was put up for adoption (sounds a lot more caring and less worrying)