My crazy roommate pt2

So my roommate who’s my bestfriend lives with me I’ve had issues with her in the past but now I’m wanting her to move out it’s become too much, I expressed my feelings and she basically said I’m wrong and she hasn’t made me feel this way. I cook for her clean for her do everything for her and she does nothing in return she’s always late on rent and on grocery bill she just isnt taking care of her pet or doing anything she can to carry her weight in the apartment I told my boyfriend how I’m feeling and he agrees he hates coming home to this energy and I feel awful because I feel as though I am to blame for all this drama. Things have gone too far and escalated. I want to end her living here and it’s my place so I can call those shots. I just wish she understood how I feel and how upset I am that she doesn’t see these issues.