Should I be upset?

Question

My husband invited his best friend over to spend the night. I already told him this weekend is my most fertile weekend. That it's bd time. I had to wake him up last night to have sex. And tonight he wants to invite his bf to stay the night and hang out with us all day tomorrow. Does this mean anytime or am I worrying over nothing?

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Something I've learned from TTC is that my husband feels the stress just as much as I do. It's different for him, his stress is all about needing to perform on the spot and deliver each and every time. My stress is charts, tests and BFNs. 
​After about 6 months of TTC my husband was very stressed out and felt like we had to let nature take it's course and stop focusing on dates and times. It didn't mean he didn't want a baby he just knew we needed to change gears and take the pressure off. I don't know your partner and what's going on in his mind, but I just wanted to share our perceptive. 
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Ask him if he wants a baby- genuinely!

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My husband did this to me yesterday. But I asked him how long till he gets here bc today's my most fertile day. You better hurry up and get over here! Hehehe! It worked!

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My husband almost tried the same thing also! He knows there is no way that we aren't bd'ing, lmao.

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It doesn't mean anything. It's ok. Guys brains are on a different level than womens! We over analyze everything. That's just how we are. Also your fertility probably isn't in the front of his mind like it is yours. And that's ok. Besides he's probably wondering why you're making a big deal about his friend staying the night. You can still bd bc his buddy isn't gonna be sleeping in the same bed right? Anyways don't worry about it and don't stress over it. Sneak away and get some! He's not being insensitive he's just a guy and their minds work different than ours! Don't stop living and loving with your husband just add that bd in there!

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You will be fine. Give him the one night to "recoup"  his supply and get him the next morning. Friend or no friend still there. Best of luck and baby dust.

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Just make time for bd when he's there lol

Should I be upset?

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