How do I tell him?

Chantal

Okay I’m going to try and keep this as short and simple as possible.

So, I’ve had a whirlwind 2 month romance with this guy. Think it is safe to say I’m falling in love although I’m not 100% sure the feelings are reciprocated or will even go that way. Things were amazing at the start - as always. But things have been off for the past 3 weeks.

Anyway, I’m 90% sure I’m pregnant. I’ve taken 3 tests and they had faint lines, the 3rd was faulty. I’m going to retest in the morning. This wasn’t planned in any way, we both knew I wasn’t on contraception and we had that discussion of “oh our kids will be so cute” but nothing serious AT ALL! He also made a joke about me being his baby mama so 🤷🏽‍♀️ but boys love to say things that sound good, right?

Well, I’m fighting with myself over how I should tell him? I’m so scared, I feel like texting him ‘we have a big problem’ but then it’s so easy for him to not take me seriously but then the thought of saying those words out loud actually make me want to throw up. This obviously wasn’t planned but I am secretly so excited and I am praying that the test comes back darker in the morning!!! I’m scared he’s going to tell me to get an abortion.

What I’m basically asking is - can you share your experiences of when you got pregnant not in a relationship and how you told that person. Like I said, I’m pretty sure I’m falling in love. I have been in love once and my oh my it is scaring the crap outta me!! This wasn’t exactly short but hopefully it’s simple 😂😂

I look forward to hearing about your experiences🥰