Ppl love to judge

I just had a baby 4 months ago and my little cherry is my world. I don’t want to birth another baby because of how hard the ending of my last pregnancy was. So my husband and I are thinking of adopting a baby boy so many kids need a home. Well my mother-in-law saying we are not considering the baby and that we will ignore our current child which is false. But she posted our business all on FB now we have ppl hitting us up saying all kinds of billshit. I don’t understand how ppl can be so judgmental of you and your spouse wanting another baby so soon and to give a baby a chance out of the system and into our home we would try adopt a infant but not older then 1 ( our choice). But so many hateful and judge mental comments it’s awful.