So fustrating

So I been talking to this guy for so long now. The other day he asked what’s my body count I told him “15” I just wanted to be honest with him and I asked what’s his he says “2” anyways . Everytime we spend time with eachother he touches me etc which is fine but when My hands starts going down he ultimately rejects it. He doesn’t want to send pics or anything. Mind you I respect his choice and I told him “ no pressure when your ready your ready”. I told him what’s wrong he said “he said his ex tried to accuse him for rape because she wanted to be with him again”. He always says “let’s fuck” and then says “oh nvm” . Sex isn’t really about everything to me but I feel like telling him my body count might have ruined it. Since he doesn’t let me touch him would it be messed up if I also told him no not to touch me anymore until he’s ready??? I also feel like he’s insecure because he tells me to go to the other room when he’s ONLY changing his shirt and ask “ wyd are you at a dick appointment haha jk” he keeps saying that..